hey man just to be clear I mean no disrespect to your situation and I'm not at all belittling the stress you guys feel, I just wanted to give you some examples of some really scary situations that turned out totally great because of both medical improvements and in my very strong opinion, the power of prayer and Holy intervention.
My wife is a pretty small woman, she was I think 112lbs when she got pregnant with the twins. Dr said she basically had to have a C section because even if they tried naturally, chances were one was going to have to be cut out regardless. so they scheduled that and did it and my oldest step daughter (by 1 minute, lol) had the umbilical cord tied in a knot. it was another scary moment that led to what is now my amazingly beautiful and intelligent 22yr old step daughters! God is good and our doctors are awesome. You guys are in great hands.
They always do lol. I'm not an evolutionist but we are made to feel a way and this is something that gives her purpose in life, I am sure. like Hyde said, be her foundation of love and support. just take care of your queen and put the rest in God's hands. you'll be aiight!